Like
many people, I have always been suspicious of the origins of Valentine’s Day. Previously
without spending anytime whatsoever researching the subject, I simply assumed
that it was just another ‘special’ day created by Hallmark to sit alongside ‘The
Sweetest Day – Oct 19th’,’Friendship Day – August 4th’ or
even ‘Toe Nail Picking Day – July 7th’.
However,
I was pleasantly surprised to read that the origins date back centuries, rather
than just the creation of Hallmark. Valentine was a third century Roman priest who
held secret marriages ceremonies when the act of marriage was prohibited for
young men. When Valentines actions were discovered, he was sentenced to death by
the Roman Emperor Claudius II.
Whilst
awaiting his fate in prison, it is said that Valentine used his saintly
abilities to heal the jailer’s daughter who was blind. Naturally they fell in
love. Before being sent to his death on February 14th 270 AD, he wrote a letter
to the jailer’s daughter and signed it "From your Valentine," an
expression that is still in use today.
Over
a thousand years later, during the 14th century St. Valentine's Day finally became
definitively associated with love and romance. In medieval France and England
it was believed that birds mated on February 14, Chaucer used the image of
birds as the symbol of lovers in poems dedicated to the day… hence the term ‘lovebirds’.
During the Middle Ages, Valentine became one
of the most popular saints in England and France. The Christian church even attempted
to sanctify the holiday. The holiday continued to evolve over the centuries and
by the 18th century, gift-giving and exchanging hand-made cards on Valentine's
Day had become common in England.
Over time, this tradition spread to the
American colonies and by the1840s Valentine's Day greeting cards began to be
commercially produced in the United States.
Valentine’s Day cards represent a quarter
of all cards sent each year (1 billion cards), making it the second largest
card sending holiday after Christmas.
Whether or not the above story changes your
views on Valentine’s day, Have You Seen the Ring would like to wish a HAPPY
VALENTINE’S DAY!
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